Kissing can be a veritable means through which you communicate your feelings to your partner. It is much more than pressing your lips against those of another person. Kissing can serve a lot of purposes. It can be used as a means of greeting. You can also express your love to your partner through kissing. Many people definitely do not know that kissing has some benefits. Kissing exercises the lips and the tongue. Besides this health benefit, you can increase the love your partner has for you if you know how to kiss passionately. Many have created indelible impression on their partner through the way they kiss them while others have ruined their relationship because they are bad kissers. Owing to this, it is important that you learn how to kiss passionately. This will help you to have a lasting relationship. You can fellow the steps given below in order to kiss passionately.
Getting ready for the kiss
If you are dating a person and you will want to express your love to him/her by giving him/her a passionate kissing, there are certain things that you should do first in order to make yourself irresistible to your partner. If you get it right, your partner will not be able to resist your first attempt to kiss him/her.
First, you have to improve your appearance. You can naturally inflame the feelings of your partner by the way you look. Put on nice clothes and smell good. This does not mean that you should buy expensive clothes. Just put on nice clothes that fit the environment you will be meeting your partner. Smell good. You can irritate your partner if have body odor. Look for good body deodorant or perfume and apply it. This will make your partner to feel proud of you or to be happy to be associated with you. If your partner is happy going out with you, you will not have any problem giving her the kiss you have ever longed for.
Ensure that your mouth and tongue are well cleaned. Kissing is done with the lips and tongues. If your mouth smells bad, your partner will not like talking to you let alone allowing you to kiss him or her. You can ruin your day if your mouth smells bad. Besides, health wise it is not good to kiss somebody with unclean mouth and tongue. So, do well to clean your mouth before you attempt kissing your partner. There are some tips that you can apply in order to have a good mouth odor.
- Brush your teeth and tongue before going out.
- Rinse your mouth with water if you have been eating in order to remove food particles.
- Look for a gum that have nice odor and chew. It will help to give your mouth a nice odor.
- You can lick mentholated sweets. The menthol odor will give your mouth a nice odor.
How to begin the kiss
Now that you have succeeded in making your partner to feel comfortable and happy being with you, you have to initiate the kiss. You don’t have to sweat over it. Initiating a kiss can be easy if you know what to do. There are some steps that you can apply in order to ask for a kiss from her or him. First, you should be courageous. Overcome your fear. Know that the person also wants the kiss as much as you want it. So, you can break the kissing barrier if you are courageous. There are some tips that you can apply in order to do that.
Your countenance should be friendly and homely. Put up a smiling face. Look passionately and briefly at her lips and ensure that you are caught doing that. Do not shiver when she sees you looking at her lips. Just smile at her while keeping your lips lightly open. Do not open your mouth wide when smiling. She may misunderstand you or think that you are laughing at her. Make the smile to be passionate, gently and light. If you have a good set of teeth, you can show them a little bit. Smiling at her in this manner while looking at her lips will arouse her feelings also. This will make her to long for the kissing.
Do not start the kissing immediately. You should also watch his or her attitude. There are signs that will show you that your partner is feeling the way you are feeling. Watch and see how he/she is looking back at you. If he/she smiles back while looking at your lips, it may be an indication that the person also wants a kiss. Watch how the person is breathing. People tend to breathe a little bit fast when their passion is rising. His/her breathing will tell you how he or she is feeling. However, do not start kissing the person immediately.
First come closer to her and hold her by the hand. If she does allow you to hold her, you can now lift it a little bit and kiss it. You should kiss the hand gently. Then watch her she responds. If she does not reject you, then luck is on your side. You can proceed to the next step.
Come closer to the person. Bring your mouth closer to his/hers and look at him/her in a passionate manner while smiling. Give her a sweet compliment. There are a number of things that you can say to the person such as:
- You are a little angel
- You are more beautiful than a queen
- I am lucky to have you as a friend
- You will kill me with your smiles
The tone of your voice matters a lot here. You should say it with a romantic voice but with a low volume. Your eyes can do wonders for you, if you know how to look seductively. Look softly and sternly at her while giving your compliment. As you are giving your compliment, watch him/her response. If the person does not move back from you as bring your mouth closer to his/hers, definitely, the person needs the kiss as much as you need it.
It is now time to kiss her. Kiss her at the mouth now. As it has been said above, kissing is not just pressing of lips together. The way you do the kissing will determine whether the person will want more of it or not. There are tips that you can apply in order to kiss her passionately.
There are some kissing techniques that you should apply to make the moment memorable and sensual for both of you. Keep your lips slightly apart from each other, exposing your teeth and the tip of your tongue. But don’t start kissing with them at this stage. Concentrate on your partner’s lips for now. This will help to you to get use to kissing especially if it is your first time of kissing a person. If you start kissing the person’s tongue and teeth, it may be a little bit messy for you as a first timer. The same time could be said of your partner. You will gradually start French kissing without knowing it. Tongue to tongue kissing or even exchanging of sweets as you are kissing will not mean anything for you. You will begin to enjoy it.
If your partner does not like the kissing, he or she will stop or withdraw from it. But the reverse will be the case if he or she enjoys the kissing. Now that the kissing is going on, you can now go deeper to French kissing. In order to make it more passionately, you can stop the kissing a little bit and then whisper nice compliments again to the person. You can say things like:
- I love you more than you think
- You are making go crazy with your kisses
- I cannot help kissing your again
- You do not know how much I have longed for this
After whispering the compliment, continue with the kissing. This time around, make it more passionate. Extend the kissing to the teeth and tongue. Lock your lips with your partner’s lips. Kiss every part of the other person’s mouth. If the person puts his or her tongue inside yours, accept it and kiss it. Touch your tongue with your partner’s tongue as you are kissing.
Take some breathe and also allow your partner to take some breathe also. You must not separate from each other before you can breathe. Breathe with the nose while still kissing. If you cannot breathe well, then separate for few seconds and then continue with the kissing.
Using the hands while kissing
The hands are very useful during kissing. Kissing without the hands will be rarely passionate. There are different ways of making good use of the hands while kissing a person. You can hold your partner by the waist while kissing her. You can also place your hands at the cheek of your partner or at the neck. It is also good to place the hands around the shoulder. In western culture, men normally place their hands around the waist of women while kissing. The women on the other hand place their hands around the shoulder of men. However, you can place your hand at any of the parts of the body mentioned above regardless of your gender. What is important here is that you are making good use of the hand while kissing your partner. Your position will also determine where you will hold your partner. If you are sitting down for example, you can hold her at the cheek or the neck or any parts of the body that is convenient for you. Do not hold your partner in any place that will cause him or her some pain. This may ruin the kissing. This is why it is important that you consider your position and that of your partner while holding him or her.
How to kiss passionately during foreplay
As it has been said above, kissing is used for a number of purposes. If you are kissing a person momentary in order to show your love, you can still be passionately about by French kissing using the lips and the tongue. However, you can go to a higher level if you are kissing for foreplay. Kissing during foreplay has no limit. There is no limit to where you can kiss your partner. How you kiss your partner will determine how he or she will enjoy the foreplay which is necessary for full enjoyment of sex. Here are some tips you can apply in order to kiss a person passionately during foreplay.
Do not limit your kissing to the mouth and tongue. There are areas of our body that are sensitive to sexual stimulation. Men have theirs and women have theirs also. You should extend your kissing to the erogenous zones of your partner. If you are kissing a woman, there are some of the parts of her body that you should not avoid kissing if you want her to quickly get excited. Kiss her earlobe, the nose, the forehead, the cheek and the side of the neck. You can gradually move down to her breast. If you can, continue until you get to her womanhood. The most sensitive organ of a woman is located there, namely, the clitoris. Kiss her there to excite her greatly.
Use the hands while kissing her. Caress her, moving from the face to the leg and any other part of her of body.
It is not only women that are sexually excite by kissing. You can also excite your male partner by kissing him passionately during foreplay. Cover him with kisses and move your hand lightly over him as you are kissing him. You can extend the kissing to his nipple as a most sensitive spot. It is sensitive in men as it is in women.
No matter how bad you are in kissing, you can still become a good kisser if you can apply the kissing tips given above.